Monday, May 13, 2013
How to defend yourself against Cyberbullies?
I know that these creepers can usually get into your nerves and this can lead to anxiety and depression sometimes. So here are what you need to do:
1. Don't feed the trolls. Just do the opposite they are asking you.
2. Learn a different language and use it as a reply to them.
3. Highlight the important words by writing them in capitals.
4. When speaking in English, try to use vocabularies that are enigmatic to understand and not usually use in common conversation. Use a thesaurus.
5. Always fight back. Fight fire with fire. Be a troll to their comments to other people and let them taste their own medicine.
6. Fight fire with water. Just use minimal but exact word/s or phrases. This is what you're gonna do when you want the argument to stop.
7. Imagine what they are going to say next and make a ready response to their possible comments. Write them down to brainstorm ideas. If possible, you can lead them into a trap.
8. Imagine the scenario of the conversation and where it might possibly lead into. If you say this, what will happen? Why can't you say or shouldn't say this idea?
9. Research the background of your haters/cyberbullies if possible so you can analyze what types of personality they have and make a battle plan for a counterstrike.
10. Always check your spelling and grammar; research the internet about the facts you're going to say before posting them so they wouldn't have anything to say against you. Perfection here is a necessity.
11. Sometimes you need to let things pass by first and fight another time because more ideas may come to your mind that you can add to your replies later.
12. Make sure you have something more creative to do than just reading and replying to their bashing comments. Meaning: that you have a real meaningful life other than the internet.
13. Make another anonymous separate account that will defend your side, whether it's in forums or social networking sites. Your cyberbully will think of you as another person with a different personality.
14. Last option is to ignore. That will make you a decent person but also a lousy conversationalist, a push-over and a doormat.